No overbearing research, quotes, statistics, or facts this week just a few simple words of experienced truth.
It’s December 17th already and the holidays are clearly in full force. This can be seen in various avenues of life, including the holiday hustle and bustle busy-ness, and holiday stress. Even the most enthusiastic Who from Whoville has experienced the overwhelming aspects of the holidays. We have seen it in our ventures at the Studio currently, and experience it daily in our own personal lives as well. Holiday stress abounds and multiplies and truthfully lets up only when you let it.
The trick is to find some sort of peace, a “happy place” if you will, and a form of acceptance. The holidays are what they are regardless of whether you panic over Aunt Suzy’s gift exchange, or baking enough cookies to satisfy the masses. The days and the time will still pass exactly the same whether you stress over your present budget, or worry about finding the time to wrap sixty items, or freak-out about the holiday feast preparation, or not. The only thing that separates these special days are the importance and the stress that we impose upon them. Realistically, they are just as long and pass just as quickly as any other day.
There is a passage within the “Twelve Steps” programs (appropriate for the holidays?) that asks for the “courage to accept the things [we] cannot change” and it seems that holiday stress is a perfect thing for the application of such a message. Accept the things you can not change. Accept that the holidays will always be the holidays, that Uncle George will never appreciate the phrase “it’s the thought that counts,” or that Grandma Lucy dislikes your recipe for cranberry stuffing. You will never be able to change the thoughts and actions of people, you can only ever change the way you react.
This year, give the holiday stress a break. Accept the few and short hours of the year as any other. Remember to smile, it will all be over soon.






